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 Hello,Dia mi!

The sun is shining so brightly,I know its going to be a good day. There's more good news. Its the weekend (Yay!). Even the lockdown can't get our spirits down❤.

So I woke up this morning thinking about something really critical,something that applies to you and I. Is there any reason why we behave the way we do?. Is it predetermined?. Is it as a result of our environment?. These were the endless questions running through my mind.

I've always known I was a melancholic. I mean,the constant brooding face and introverted attitude were enough hints. But had I ever cared to know more about myself?. Have you ever made the effort to discover your temperament?. Good question!!

So this morning brought me a startling realization,thanks to Google's graciousness. I was dumbfounded. How could it be possible that a site would know all my exact character traits. Did someone spy on me?.

I read on and saw that it was not rocket science. Rather,it is genetically acquired. It is the reason why you and your totally opposite friend are so connected(Like poles,sorry humans,don't attract.). It is the reason why you're relaxed and can take a joke. It is the reason why your friend is uptight and can't take a joke.

It's all because there are four temperaments. This stuff called tenperament is a huge factor that moulds your personality. It is why you are what you are.
As seen in the picture,all of us have different temperaments and attitudes towards life. I know you're curious about my temperament. I'm a melancholic. I'm the uptight one who finds it hard to relax. 

You want to know what your temperament is?. I'm not going to tell you. You have to discover the gold by yourself.

This link would lead you to a vast treasury where all your deepest questions would be answered. And to be honest with you,not all the traits might be positive. Don't fret,it can be changed through conscious actions.

I trust that I have led you to a safe place in the journey of self discovery. Remember to wash your hands,drink enough water and eat good food. This is not the time to visit your friend. Gbogbo yen o necessary,Dia mi. Most importantly,stay extremely safe.

With love,
Peperempe.

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