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The Pandemic Effect: Dating

Hello,Dia mi!

I trust that you have been doing fabulously well. It has been such a long time we've talked and I must apologize to you. I'm hopeful that I've been forgiven❤.

I came up with a very interesting and controversial topic. It's the lockdown season and many of us have been feeling really lonely. It is inevitable for us to spend hours on social media talking to people. You know,even having longer conversations with some special people. Hold on!

In case you haven't guessed,I'm talking about the pandemic effect. There have been cases of abrupt relationships,all caused by loneliness. Many people have started dating just to remove the loneliness wrapping itself around them.However, there's one big question.

Are these people ready for the lovey dovey affair? Do they really want to commit? Will they maintain the bond even after normalcy is restored? So I came up with a few things to consider before you fall too deep.

A refuge from loneliness:
Ask yourself if you really want to be with the person or you just want entertainment.Did you agree to date him/her because you feel connected? Are you dating the person because he/she is the source of your happiness? Before you answer,remember that true happiness has to come from within.

Ready or not:
You absolutely must be ready to take on the challenges of dating. Successful dating requires multiple ingredients only readiness can give. Before giving in to the pandemic effect,make sure its not just the sound of it you like.

The lover by the side:
This is a very tricky aspect that many people forget to notice. Are you currently in another relationship? Are you still hung up over a former lover?. No should be your answer before you jump into yet another love affair. Too much heartbreaks are not good for the soul.

If you feel that you're confident enough after reflecting on all of this,I'm wishing you the best of luck. One of the most beautiful things is a happy relationship.

What are your thoughts about the pandemic effect? Feel free to say it in the comment section.

With love,
Peperempe.
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  1. The Pope31 May 2020 at 08:48

    Another lovely educational write up. Whatever you do, please don't stop

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  2. Unknown31 May 2020 at 10:06

    Weldone dia was😂..
    We enjoy your message.

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  3. Unknown31 May 2020 at 15:23

    Thank you Peperempe. The pandemic effect is taking its toll on a lot of us. I'm glad I read this piece. Thank you.

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