3 Am Buddy Or Toxic Buddy?

Hello,Dia mi!

I trust that you woke up to a bright day. It has been a crazy week over here,with all the negativity floating around. I hope that all these sad events in the world come to an end.

I came to our conversation with a special gift. Before unwrapping it,let's reflect on a few questions. Can you sacrifice everything for a friend? Can your friend sacrifice everything for you? Do you have supportive friends? Do you have a truthful friendship?

We all love to be cherished and cared for just because we're human. It gives us a feeling of happiness and belonging when we know we matter to someone. I'm hoping the default button of this someone is a friend😂. The big question here is who you consider as your friend. That's totally up to you!

In life,toxic people are inevitable. They are the hard pills that teach us huge lessons. In actual fact,everyone has a streak of toxicity in them🤭. We cannot always come across good people. We might make friends with narcissists,gas lighters and any kind of manipulative person. These kinds of friends make us feel low and undermine our hard work. They also manipulate us into doing what they want no matter how ugly the act is.

Luckily,the 3 AM friends are always there to save the day. They are what we call the true friends. They support us wholeheartedly. They are the ones who tell you the truth and make you see reason. You could call them at 3 AM for help and they would not hesitate. I know it sounds unbelievable but they exist.

The bitter truth is that roles can be reversed. All your friends may not stay forever because people change. You may not be friends with people for life because you will change. It is the law of nature. You should not beat yourself up when this happens. You should rather take the important lessons,wish that person the best and move on. If you are meant to be together,you will be.

Who's your 3AM buddy? Are you a 3AM buddy? Whatever your answer is,I hope this stirs up the urge to do the right thing. Let me know what you think in the comments section.

With love,

Peperempe

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