Unrequited: The Series (10)

Hello,Dia mi!

You cannot believe how much I have missed you. It breaks my heart that I had to stay away for so long. On the bright side,its a bright day!(Did you guess what I did there?)

I am so eager to tell you everything on my mind. I would advise that you get something to munch on to spike up the excitement. I trust that you're ready for the ride now.

Last time,I told you how "Prince Charming" dropped a bombshell on me. He apparently thought that my friend had a crush on him. I could not understand how a single smile could give him such an idea. However,I was in for a bigger shock.

He also mentioned that he was sure I had a crush on him. Inwardly,I was scared but I brushed it off. I called his bluff and lied that he was just a friend. He however insisted that he was right. He even had the nerve to say he didn't want to be caught up in a love triangle. (What just happened?).

Somewhere inside me,I knew this was the time to give him space. My heart had other plans. These other plans involved getting closer to him,which is exactly what I did. Making this decision might have been one of the best or worst decisions in my life. I am unable to decide which one it is😅.

After deciding to get closer to him,I did another stupid thing. Should I have done that,even with all the screaming red flags?. This is what worries me till today,Dia mi. I hope I can get an answer in our next conversation.

Remember to stay safe and healthy. Till then,stay rational and popping❤.

With love,

Peperempe.

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