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The Art Of Friendship 101

Hello, Dia mi😁😁! It's been a long time since I had my last conversation with you. I've missed you a whole lot amid all the tests, assignments, and ocean of notes I have to read. I missed you so much that I had to make time for you.



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You must be wondering why I'm mentioning peace of mind in this conversation. As you go through life and all the challenges it places before you, you forget to breathe and be mindful of the things around you. So, I'm reminding you to put your peace of mind above everything. Stop worrying about things that cost you your peace. Just take it one step at a time♥.

I wanted to tell you all about what I did for my friends over the last few weeks. I have been supportive of my friends lately, and it has made me a happier person. I have realized that it is more enjoyable to be a "let me sort it out" person rather than an "oh, wow" person😂.


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I might not have hacked this friendship thing, but I want to be more intentional about it. I want to be that friend that you can trust to be always there anytime you need them. Especially for you, Dia mi.

You might ask, what if it is not reciprocated? That's fine because I'm doing it for my happiness. It's what I want to do. It's how I think I can make the world a better place. For me, that's one of the ways I can make a difference in the society around me. It's how I can shine my light, no matter how dim it is.


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What are you doing today to be a better friend? How are you showing that you are a valuable person😚? I would love to hear all about it in the comments section. I hope to continue our conversation soon.

P.S: If you need someone to rant to or want to say something to me, you can reach me through my email address at sfisayo78@gmail.com. Xoxo♥

With love,
Peperempe.


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  1. So nice to hear from you Peperempe. Wisdom on our laps again. I hope to be a better friend too. I'm learning to look outside myself and actually pay interest to others. Thank you for this love.

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